How Your Cell Phone is Destroying Your Relationship

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Life before the
technological advancement like cell phones was either good or bad depending on
your own context. We are aware of many marriages that attribute their success
and existence on their handsets. Thanks to this gadget that has enabled couples
to communicate at ease from wherever destinations they may be.

When I view my friends’
marriage status on facebook, most write either single or complicated even
though they are married.Dont be too fast to conclude that people are cheating
on each other. The fact is that the way of life has drastically changed and
fully depends on our cell phones. Today the first thing married couples do when
they wake up is to jump to their phones. We do miss the good morning darling
greetings and the genuine hugs in the morning.

This dictate peoples’
mood depending on what they have read or seen. The breakfast will be prepared
halfway as somebody is scrolling her phone. The quiet environment will continue
on the table and on their way to their working station the husband will feel
bored driving as his wife will be busy smiling at her phone.

Things will get worse
as the wife will not be aware that she has reached her destination and someone
will be on the staring wheel very annoyed. What follows on the husband social
media status can easily be predictable. The whole situation will get worse when
the wife will view his status. In the evening the atmosphere in the house will
be terrible and each of them will get comfort from his or her cell phone.

The situation will
remain constant until one of them becomes realistic and goes back to normal.
Many are times when you visit a public place like a hotel and you see very well
dressed couples sitting together in pairs and occasionally sipping their drinks.
If you become very vigilant you will notice a very common trend among the couples.
One of them on a table if not both is busy scrolling the cell phone while the
other is contemplating on what to do in order to attract the attention of the
other.

It is vivid that most
peoples’ feelings and actions are affected by what they do with their cell phones.
Relationships are dictated by daily events that must be subjected to the cell
phone for a test. Hash tags, status updates and likes are more important than
the physical person next to you. The old good days when couples used to have
time for each other are long gone. It is up to you to take up the
responsibility of giving your cell phone a break and dedicate your time and
self to your spouse.

 

 

















 




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